If you have ever been in love, you have had your heart broken or hurt. When we have expectations in our love relationships we experience disappointment and pain. When we risk it all, we also have the opportunity to have it all. Opening our heart completely to someone can also bring up tremendous fear. Allowing someone to see our vulnerable side and our insecurities can be challenging. When we don’t open up completely in love we miss grasping the Holy Grail. Yet even when love, commitment and respect are present in a relationship, we can still get hurt.
Why then do some of us extend the olive branch and try love again and again, when others are too afraid to? It is because it feels so incredible and amazing, that’s why. Love simply expands us. We are the better version of ourselves when we are in love. Everything in our lives works better with someone who loves us unconditionally stands by us when we are down. After experiencing the deep connection of a mind, body, spirit relationship we want it again and again! To be in love and attracted to someone with our pheromones in alignment can gift us with the greatest of experiential highs. This is where the expression, “I saw God!” comes from during sex. The act of love making can awaken our kundalini, enliven us and bring us to ecstasy. Regular sex increases our oxytocin and 30 other feel good hormones that help us maintain optimum health. We were created to fit together like two pieces of a puzzle. To feel shame about something so beautiful, which was given to us by Our Creator is simply misguided. Once experienced, we want to re-create it. Having someone love us back is one of the greatest gifts we humans can experience.
The flip side of ecstasy in love is a broken heart. Sometimes the hurt is so deep that we never know how to get beyond it. Many women live out the last 20 or more years of their lives alone because they simply have been hurt so deeply that they choose to live alone rather than experience deep hurt again.
Ecstasy Through an Open Heart
I am a fearless person and know the power of love that can find us when we least expect it. I have experienced the love of a Twin Flame. He showed up when I was working on myself, and certainly NOT looking for love. When we are looking for love, it alludes us. Why is that? To understand this reality you have to understand the way energy moves. Wherever you focus your attention on a thought the energy about that thought grows. When we keep looking for the love we want, we are recreating lack. We are focusing on the not having of it. I am a fearless person and know the power of love that can find us when we least expect it. I have experienced the love of a Twin Flame. He showed up when I was working on myself, and certainly NOT looking for love. When we are looking for love, it alludes us. Why is that? To understand this reality you have to understand the way energy moves. Wherever you focus your attention on a thought the energy about that thought grows. When we keep looking for the love we want, we are recreating lack. We are focusing on the not having of it. I have a system that works for helping women find their True Love. It has worked for me 3 times. What I will tell you about this is, if you don’t do the work BEFORE you attract your mate you will get the partner that is the exact energetic match for where you are.
The work I speak of is coming into alignment with your True Self (High Self, Divine Self). In the 8 week program we begin to excavate down into your deepest fears about you, life and love. We eliminate them. We decreate them and then we begin a powerful program that allows you fall in love with YOU! When you fall in love with yourself, others can’t help falling in love with you also. What most people do not realize is that their sense of lack of money is a direct reflection of their lack of SELF LOVE. Money is the energy of love. How can you attract money when you don’t love you? You are in a state of LACK.
Many of us create steel doors over our hearts because we have had our hearts broken. Breaking down the barriers to love will allow more love in. But you can’t love someone more than you love yourself. It all begins with loving you.
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Do you have friends or family members with unfinished business between you? These broken or damaged relationships stop the flow of energy in your own body and can cause illness. Resolving discord in all your relationships helps restore your health and your energy. I can help you with this work also. I teach you tools that clear away the energy of the issue so that you can heal the love between you. You don’t even have to talk to the other person to heal the issue.
Why not tell the people in your life how much you love them and let all the rest just dissolve. Is the issue you were upset about still present? Can you let it go? If not, why not? Anytime that you hold resentment or anger on an issue, it creates stress and disease in your body. Forgiveness frees your heart so that you have more space to love yourself and others. You cannot have love without forgiveness.
One of the issues I help my clients with is opening their hearts. Letting go of control and judgment are part of this process. Many of my clients are plagued with issues from old relationships, most all the way back to childhood. The old energy taints present relationships. Healing the patterns from past relationships is part of healing and opening your heart. When you let go of the pain and suffering of the past it is amazing what you can do with today. Letting go of the past frees you and creates more space for love and the infinite possibilities of The Universe.
Are you ready for love? Are you committed to doing whatever it takes to have the love you want? Call or e-mail Jennifer to schedule your DISCOVERY session to find out if Jennifer can work with you. I invite your comments and questions below.
Listen to Jennifer on The Love Doctor BlogTalk Radio with Shaneetha Akilana. The subject of the show is: Is Your Twin Flame Sleeping With Someone Else? Click here to be taken to the archive.
Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is a Love Yourself Fearlessly certified Life Coach Author, Speaker and Hypnotherapist. She has cleared 1,000s of people of their patterns and beliefs that no longer serve them. Work with a coach that has healed herself of codependency, drug, alcohol shopping and food addictions. She has healed herself of shame, guilt and fear. She walks the walk and has been where you are. Through direct experience Jennifer helps you move through yours. Her compassion and intuition are unparalleled. The guidance she receives on your issues is loving and moves you faster because no time is wasted. Therapy did not work for Jennifer. It was energy clearing, deep introspection and the powerful tools for discovery that Jennifer used on herself to become free of fear, control, manipulation and lack. Why not hire someone that has been where you are and is not faking it till she makes it. Jennifer is Self Actualized and Enlightened. You can leave a voice message for Jennifer at (770) 480-5500.Ask Jennifer if you are a good fit now