Tests And More Tests in The Dating Pool

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Have you ever felt that you were being tested? Maybe you made a commitment to yourself and The Universe, or God, that you will only date men who are ______ (angry, addicts, alcoholics, married fill in the blank). Or maybe, for the gentlemen out there, you made a commitment to yourself to only have protected sex, or to only date women that _________( who have been divorced for over two years, don’t smoke, want to have sex, fill in the blank). Whatever the commitment that you made, there will be opportunities to see if you really meant what you said.

Just because a situation presents itself, does not mean you have to say YES! In other words, the next person you meet does not have to be someone that you date. In fact, once you have made a commitment to yourself, if you don’t follow through and stick to your guns, another test will follow and another test and another. Until you show The Universe that you mean what you say. the testing will continue.

Breaking Patterns

When we are working to break through a pattern we have had for many years, the testing is like a good friend asking you, “Are you really sure about this?” Opportunities present themselves for us to stand up for ourselves, validate our commitments and follow through. Following are a couple of examples:

You decide that you are done with alcoholics and other addictive personalities. You recognize that you have a pattern of attracting

this type of partner. Perhaps your father was an alcoholic and this pattern of partner keeps turning up for you. You have made a concerted effort to break through this pattern.

The next gorgeous man or woman you meet is friendly, affable, interesting and charismatic. Still, there is a nagging feeling in the back of your mind that the dates you have been on have all been associated with pubs, bars and drinking. You stick it out anyway, even though you have a nagging feeling. Weeks later, you determine your suspicions were correct they are an alcoholic. What happened to your super sleuth skills? 

Sometimes We Give A Bad Risk Too Much Time

Most of us have a tendency to give people second, third and fourth chances, even after the red flags have been waving in our faces since we first met this person. We ignore the red flags. We often even ask questions about the issue and listen to the excuses or lies the other person gives us instead of listening to ourselves. If we

don’t trust ourselves, we tend not to listen to our gut instinct. This can be very dangerous. It is how many people end up repeating the same bad relationships over and over. To break the cycle, we have to change our response. We need to get faster at recognizing red flags and warning signs. 

Trust Your Gut

Your body never lies. There are several ways that your body talks to you. You may feel a stomach drop, a lump in your throat, or a gut instinct that something isn’t kosher. Listen to your gut. Trust your self. 

The Universe is Abundant….  There are Plenty of People to Date!

When you walk away from a relationship because of a serious issue, you are standing up for yourself. You are telling The

Universe, I won’t do this again (hopefully… till the next time, I do it again). Some of us repeat the same thing quite a few times before we really get it. That’s okay. When you finally do learn the lesson, you will be so DONE that you will be sure it won’t happen again. You will begin to smell them coming! Using your discernment to recognize the people that aren’t good for you is a skill. It also takes some courage. After you have dated one bi-polar person or narcissist, you will be watchful of the signs and avoid a repeat. 

The truth of the matter is that when you say, “NO!” you are closing a door. When you close one door another will open. It is better to leave a relationship with no one in the wings (closing the door). Once the door is closed, another person will present themselves. Don’t stay for fear that there won’t be another person that will date you. This is demonstrating lack consciousness. The Universe is abundant. There are lots more where this one came from! Remember! You are so much better than that. You deserve to be loved. You are worthy! 

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters became enlightened and self actualized in 2012. She is able to assist you come to a loving acceptance of yourself. When you are committed to your self growth and self discovery, she helps you overcome the following:

  • low self esteem
  • depression
  • apathy
  • loneliness
  • suicidal tendencies
  • chaos
  • lack of focus
  • living in the past or future
  • unhappiness
  • sadness
  • nervousness
  • fears
  • health issues
  • Fibromyalgia
  • Epstein Barr Syndrome
  • arthritis
  • sexual dysfunction
Working with Jennifer you will see your self esteem rise to great heights. Apathy dissolves along with depression and sadness. You become totally present in the moment. Jennifer has healed all of these issues above as well as breast cancer in herself. She has the tools to help you do it too. She is certified as a Hypnotherapy Trainer, Neurolinguistic Programming Practitioner, A Master Energy Healer. All of these are used in her catalystic coaching.

How does she do it?

Great question. Jennifer is a catalyst and a spiritual pathfinder. She helps you align with your true high self. She helps you come into loving acceptance of you. When you love and accept yourself, your world changes drastically. Instead of attracting relationships that don’t work, you fine people and situations that support you. Life becomes a joy to experience. Loneliness dissolves. Your mind quiets and you feel serene, peaceful and your creativity soars. 

If you have struggled with life, love and relationships all your life, isn’t it time you took the first step? Contact Jennifer now through her private e-mail. She has room for two committed clients now. Her book is filling up, so don’t wait. Once her new radio show Straight Up Sex Talk begins, there will be less time on her calendar. She gives each of her clients her undivided attention and is fully present with you.

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