By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
|Nature’s replica of the female form|
Ah the female form. It is lovely, beautiful, fragrant and absolutely Divine. Our body parts are delicate, tender and as different from one lovely woman to the next. Each woman is different. No two are alike. No two women like exactly the same type of stimulation. The clitoris is the female penis, only better! No! Really? How could it possibly be better, you ask? You are in for a pleasant surprise, but please don’t get jealous. It has twice the number of nerve endings that the male penis has.
The clitoris is located above the opening to the vagina, on the outside of the body. Moving from the navel towards the vagina it is the first moving part that can be caressed, played with and excited to bring a woman to orgasm with a well-practised tongue, finger or
vibrator. If you look at the orchid above, it depicts the positioning of this delicate and lovely body part. It is located between the two large petals of the flower, but slightly above and outside the most delicate inner flower. For more pictures and descriptions of the clitoris
Can you say, PLEASURE? Yup, the clit is the only part of a woman’s sexual parts that is solely for her pleasure. It is the fastest way to get a woman off and most women know it. Most women do not orgasm through penile penetration alone. They need the friction
of the clitoris to get there. They need the stimulation of the G-spot to ejaculate. If your woman doesn’t ejaculate, you have not sufficiently stimulated her. It is not that she doesn’t have a G-spot. Do you see men walking around without a penis? I rest my case!
Placing the tip of your finger on the clitoris, gently add pressure inward, making concentric circles slowly at first, adding pressure and speed as you go. If you use too much lube you will totally piss her off! The clitoris can be stimulated gently without lube for heightened pleasure. The key is that women need to feel the rubbing, circles of pleasure and lubrication often gives you too much skidding – without the needed pressure. (Read my book about this.)
Most women will tell you that they love a good tongue lashing, myself included! However, too much saliva causes too little friction. Whatever you do, don’t stop in the middle of oral sex, you might get kicked, yelled at or who knows what else. Once she begins to moan, keep up whatever you are doing. Don’t stop to ask for directions! You know you don’t when you are driving, so don’t now!
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Unlike the male penis which can shrink and sag with age, the clit never does. No matter how old a woman is, she can still orgasm through stimulation of her little love bud! Isn’t it time you got to know yours, intimately! If you have never brought your woman to orgasm through the clitoris, you are missing a very big boat. You may be up a creek without a paddle ….. read my book, Orgasm For Life. Find out more about how to pleasure a woman, completely.
For more information about the clitoris and some enlightening pictorals check out Wikipedia here.
The clitoris in some cultures is removed to prevent their women from experiencing pleasure. The underlying reason is to keep her from experiencing pleasure with others. Why would you want sex if there was no pleasure for you in it? This surgical removal is cruel, misogynistic.
This video was created by Paul Joannides Psy D. author of The Guide To Getting It On. I’ve watched it, and consider it great! Enjoy!