How well did you love? How fully did you live? How deeply did you let go? ~Buddha
I was asked to write about death over a week ago. I do not fear death as I have looked it in the face. I am not afraid to die, because I have lived and loved fully and let go of the past as well as the stories about it. Death does not scare me because I have lived my life on the edge, pushed my personal limits and forgiven everyone.
Many do not realize that here we must die.
For those who realize this quarrels end.
When you live life fully expressed giving yourself to each moment, you know you are making the most of your life. Sitting around watching television or spending hours “connecting falsely” with people on social media, or playing games on your computer is not living, it is escaping. Do you escape from life, or live fully expressed? Are you sharing your light with the world or downplaying your gifts in fear of what others might think?
For those of you in marriages that are fake, staying together for who knows what reason, not making love, not touching, not forgiving, not loving, shame on you! You are barely living. Love comes from understanding. Have you attempted to understand?
Remembering a wrong is like carrying a
burden on the mind.
Nothing stays the same. We change, weather changes, governments change, our loved one’s change, and eventually we all die. Death is the end game. We can’t escape death. What we do today determines how we feel tomorrow.
We must learn to roll with these changes rather than keeping our feet stuck in the past if we do we crumble and fall as the new comes in and bowls us over.
Living in the present means enjoying what is before you, rather than focusing on what wasn’t yesterday or what might be tomorrow. We must surrender our anger, resentment and hatred for others; forgiving everyone allows us to move on.
If you haven’t had the love you dream of, why not? Look within to see what is holding you back? Do you love and accept yourself? Or are you blaming the girl who laughed at you for not having the love of your dreams? It is never the other; it is always about us. We need to turn our attention inside to look for those unhealed parts of ourselves that we don’t love, revere or respect.
What others think of us is none of our business. Dwelling on other’s opinions, allowing them to cripple us is not living.
Pain Is Inevitable Suffering Is Optional
There is no doubt that we feel pain for many reasons, especially when we lose a loved one. Holding onto that pain, rather than allowing it to move through us is what causes us to suffer. Over time, it becomes easier. We move on. Life is different without their physical presence. We must remember that love never dies. Their love is always present even when the person is no longer in physical form.
We only lose what we cling to. Trying to hold on to our children, or anyone causes us to suffer. Loving without attachment gives us all room to be who we are and do what we came here to do.
Radiate Your Light
There isn’t enough darkness in the world to snuff out your light. Light is always more powerful than the dark. Downplaying, who you are to defer to another, isn’t living fully. You have a purpose. Have you discovered what it is? Or are you stuck behind a desk in a job you hate staying small out of fear?
For over twenty years, I received messages to write about my life. “Who,” I asked “would want to hear my story?” Plenty it turns out. Millions have had similar experiences to
mine and need to be shown there is a way out of the darkness. Showing others the way makes me a pathfinder. I help you find yours. There is light at the end of the tunnel. I promise!
There is a way out of fear, anxiety, negativity illness and depression. I kept myself small because of my man. I was afraid of becoming greater than their fears. My concern was that I would lose them. Instead, I lost myself. My pain was the catalyst for change in my life and tremendous healing. Looking within, I found a bright shiny being who loves life, experiences joy, tranquility and bliss. I would never have thought it possible when I was in the dark. I could not see the way for certain. Putting one step in front of the other, learning, growing and turning my focus inward, rather than on my partner(s), I found me.
Expand beyond where you have been before. Believe in yourself. Know that you have the goods! You are an incredible being of light, and this world needs you. Happiness is the way! That is why you are here! Each of us has a unique purpose. Have you discovered what you are here to do? Are you living fully expressed? If not, why not? If not now, WHEN?
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