Remember Monica Lewinsky and Bill Clinton? Most of us do. Bill Clinton created a paradigm that many adults and plenty of teens today are living. Clinton said and I quote, “I did not have sexual relations with that woman.” Monica Lewinsky’s dress told the truth. Many believe what Clinton created: oral sex, does not constitute sex. WRONG! The fact that Clinton’s semen spilled over the front of Monica’s dress proved a sexual affair.
What Constitutes Sex?
- Oral sex
- A Hand job
- Anal sex
- Masturbation of another person
- Causing another to have an orgasm by any means
The Truth Will Set you Free!
In the process of being cyber-bullied and ashamed, Monica Lewinsky almost lost her life. Shame and humiliation are issues that I help women heal from. The more numb that we become, the more we are attracted to public humiliation. It is a symptom of the culture we have created. Our beliefs need to be changed. Public shaming needs to stop. Shame cannot survive empathy. Empathy from one person can make a difference. Instead of bullying, post positive comments instead.