Our soul needs to be fed. We feed our soul with the beauty of nature, music, meditation, chanting and filling ourselves with love. When we are grounded in the present we witness world events and can laugh at what is happening rather than being caught up in the back-biting and ego-driven words on FaceBook and elsewhere. It is possible, following are suggestions that work for me, feel them out and test the waters as they may work for you as well.
You might want to read my article about whether we really need to say some of the things we do to others. Does It Really Need To Be Said? Once we begin to turn inward we usually find that the trigger was within us or we wouldn’t have been triggered at all. Compassion is so much softer than judgment. Turn the compassion inward, breathe it in fully.
If you feel like crying, allow yourself to cry. It may be the fastest way to move through to the other side of the strong emotions.
Ignoring issues and stuffing emotions causes illness. Our emotions are meant to move. If you have been told to stop crying as a child or an adult you probably have issues speaking up for yourself, like me. I had to work very diligently to move beyond being silent when I was upset.
My parents didn’t allow us to express emotions, like so many at that time. They didn’t know any better. Kids were taught to put up or shut up. The truth of the matter is that we grew up with emotional neglect. (Watch for a future article about emotional neglect next.) When we fear conflict, we keep silent. Our partners and loved ones don’t recognize why we are upset because we are unable to communicate effectively.
How To Meditate
Gayan or Jnana Mudra
A mudra is a hand and finger position. We have five elements within us, each of our fingers represent a different element. The thumb represents the element of fire. The index finger represents air. Holding these two together in the Gayan mudra quiets the mind by increasing concentration and is a gesture of knowledge and creativity. Placing your hands gently to rest on our thighs provides grounding. Holding the hands in the air, palms upward when feeling receptive allows you to receive.
Place your hands, gently on your thighs or knees. Any mind chatter you have about not needing to put your thumb and index finger together is ego-based. Ignore it. Thinking you can’t meditate is also just mind chatter. Ignore that too. I can’t tell you how many people I have helped (including me) to move beyond negative thoughts about, not being able to meditate or do many other things well. Allow those thoughts to drift away. Put them in a blue balloon and let them float away if it helps you to do so.
Use A Mantra To Quiet The Mind
Mantras give the active mind something to do so that the errant thoughts quiet. A mantra creates a blissful mind quickly. You can fight it, you can say you don’t want to, but the sooner you begin to use mantras, the faster the mind quiets. The following are mantras you can use. The first two are elements of my video below. The Divine Presence Process Mantra is a powerful meditation that allows you to give and receive love.
Resistance is what show us when you argue with a suggestion that will help you. Resistance causes suffering. Suffering is always optional.
When we can stay present in the moment and be okay with whatever is going on, we begin to experience wonderment and joy no matter what. I am not saying that we might not feel trepidation with preparations of war or unrest in the world. However, we can shift quickly to be feeling peace by turning inward rather than focusing on what is wrong with the world.
When we can be okay with what is life is sweeter. We become happier, focused on each moment rather than sitting in expectation and fear of the worst thing happening. Food tastes better, we have more joy in nature and the small things in life that surround us.
We notice the smallest of details, the nuances of life, rather than focusing on the worst that might happen. Joy is found within us, not in the world. The feelings of joy are within you, allow me to help you uncover your inner joy and set up a discovery session with me to find your joy, bliss, and happiness inside you. Visit Jennifer’s website: JenniferElizabethMasters.com